☕️ (R)emote Expresso #48

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Hey Remote Rebels and Digital Daydreamers,

Let's talk about the vampire in the conference room - the one whose time zone always wins.

Global collaboration sounds romantic until someone has to sacrifice sleep.

And here's the thing nobody says out loud: it's always the same people making the sacrifice. The junior dev in Manila. The contractor in Cairo. The designer in São Paulo who keeps saying "no problem!" while quietly resenting every 9pm call.

Time zones aren't neutral. They're power dynamics disguised as calendar math.

This week, we're asking: What if the invisible labor of time zone accommodation actually became… visible?

🧛‍♀️ The Time Zone Vampire Strikes Again

Let's get specific. You've felt this:

• The "just hop on real quick" that requires someone to hop on at 2am.

• The standing meeting that rotates through every time zone except yours.

• The assumption that "flexible work" means you're available across all 24 hours.

• The Slack message at midnight from a colleague who "didn't realize what time it was for you."

• The culture that rewards whoever shows up to the live meeting - even if the async work is better.

Here's what makes it vampiric: the people doing the accommodating often don't complain. 

So they drain their own schedules, their own sleep, their own boundaries - and call it collaboration.

But accommodation without reciprocity isn't collaboration. It's taking advantage.

👀 How Each Generation Feels It

Gen Z: Launched entire careers on async-first promises, then discovered "mandatory all-hands" at 6am PST. Told flexibility is the future, but the meeting invites say otherwise. Still learning it's okay to say, "That time doesn't work for me."

Millennials: Juggling time zones, childcare, aging parents, and the curse of being the "bridge generation" between office norms and remote freedom. Burning out quietly while trying to make everyone else comfortable. Masters of the 11pm "quick check-in."

Gen X: Remember when business hours were… actual hours? Now expected to be available across three continents because "that's just how it works now." Tired of being the ones who "make it work" without anyone noticing.

Boomers: Adapted to remote work, then discovered the new challenge: trying to collaborate with people whose work day hasn't even started yet. Miss the simplicity of "9-to-5 local time" and the ability to just walk down the hall.

🌐 Why This Belongs in (R) Generation

Because global collaboration is our whole thing.

We're a community spanning 50+ countries. We celebrate async work. We design facilitation experiences across time zones. We talk about how remote work "levels the playing field."

But let's be honest: some fields are more level than others.

When someone in San Francisco schedules a "quick sync" at 2pm their time, they're asking someone in Manila to join at 5am the next day. When the tools default to US holidays and the Slack banter peaks during Pacific mornings, it's clear: not all remote workers are equally remote.

Fixing this isn't a perk. It's a prerequisite for actual equity in remote work.

When we succeed, we create teams where collaboration doesn't require someone to wreck their circadian rhythm. Async becomes the main event, not the backup plan. And visibility? It's determined by the quality of your work - not whether you made the 10am EST standup.

We're not just building remote companies. We're building globally humane ones.

🩸 The Invisible Labor of Time Zone Accommodation

Let's name what usually goes unnamed:

• The work of making yourself available across impossible hours.

• The cognitive load of constantly translating time zones in your head.

• The social cost of missing the "hallway moments" that happen in someone else's daylight.

• The exhaustion of being the one who always joins late, leaves early, or watches the recording.

• The career penalty of not being in the room when decisions get made - because the room is at 3am your time.

This labor is gendered (women and caregivers accommodate more), racialized (Global South bends to Western schedules), classed (contractors can't say no), and invisible (nobody tracks or compensates for it).

You know what makes it worse? The guilt.

Guilt is how the vampire keeps feeding.

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🛠️ Fixes: Stake Through the Heart Edition

Here's how to stop letting time zones drain your team (and your soul):

1. Rotate the Pain

If your team must meet synchronously, rotate the inconvenient time slot. Let San Francisco join at 6am sometimes. Let London stay up late occasionally. Make the accommodation visible and shared instead of invisible and one-sided.

Anchor it: Add a "time zone equity tracker" to your team calendar. Who's been joining outside their core hours? Rotate accordingly.

2. Default to Async (And Mean It)

Make async the expectation, not the backup plan.

• Record key meetings and create Loom summaries.

• Use Miro for brainstorms everyone can contribute to - on their own time.

• Run decision-making in threads, not live calls.

• Make "attendance optional" actually optional.

Anchor it: If something can be documented, Butter-recorded, or threaded in Slack, it doesn't need a live meeting.

3. Create "Core Collaboration Windows" - Not Core Hours

Instead of mandating 9-5, identify 2-3 hours per week when most of the team overlaps. Protect those fiercely for real-time work. Everything else? Async.

Anchor it: Poll your team for their actual availability (not the hours they'll tolerate). Build your windows around genuine overlap, not wishful thinking.

4. Pay the Time Zone Tax

If you're asking someone to join outside their reasonable hours, acknowledge it:

• "I know this is late for you - thank you."

• "Let's make sure this doesn't become a pattern."

• Offer comp time, late starts, or meeting-free days in return.

Anchor it: Track accommodation. If someone's bending their schedule for the team, make sure the team bends back.

5. Make Decision-Making Transparent

The real vampire move? Making decisions in meetings that half the team can't attend.

• Document decisions in public channels.

• Give people 24-48 hours to weigh in async before finalizing.

• Stop treating "the people in the room" as "the people who matter."

Anchor it: No decision is final until it's been shared async and people have had a chance to respond.

🤖 AI Prompt of the Week

Ready to design a more humane time zone strategy? Try this:

Let AI help you prototype a system where nobody has to become nocturnal to be a good teammate.

🧪 Ritual: The Time Zone Reckoning

Here's your challenge this week:

Step 1: Look at your calendar. Who's been joining meetings outside their core hours?
Step 2: Send them a message: "I noticed you've been accommodating [time]. Thank you. How can we make this less one-sided?"
Step 3: Propose one small change - rotating the time, moving to async, or creating a comp policy.
Step 4: Do it. Don't just acknowledge the labor - redistribute it.

Treat it like the experiment it is. If it works, keep it. If it doesn't, iterate.

The goal isn't perfect equity - it's visible, acknowledged, reciprocal care.

💬 Your Turn

What's the most ridiculous time you've ever joined a meeting to accommodate someone else's schedule?

Or flip it: Have you ever realized you were the time zone vampire without knowing it?

Hit reply and tell us your story. The juiciest (or most mortifying) ones might just make it into a future Espresso. ☕️👻

Collaboration isn't canceled - it's just gone global.

But global doesn't have to mean someone's always losing sleep.

The time zone vampire only wins if we keep pretending the accommodation is invisible. The moment we name it, track it, and redistribute it?

The spell breaks.

No hustle. No guilt. Just humans working on better ways to work - across time zones, without the teeth marks.

— The (R) Generation Team 🧡 🫶

PS: Your worth isn't measured by how early you wake up for a meeting. It's measured by the work you do - whenever you do it. 🧛‍♀️⏰

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